Special Day

Birthdays.....just another day or cause for celebration?

In the States, I experienced both ways. Some times, when family was away, my birthday would be just another day. Often, with family and or friends around, it was an excuse for a party or bigger celebration. Like the time Ananda and Shanthi through me a surprise party after work. All the guests came and “got” to clean up the house and the dishes in the kitchen! Was I embarrassed! But the party ws great fun.

Here in Uganda, hardly anyone pays attention to their birthday, or the birthday of a loved one. Many people over 40 don't know their birth date and the records for many old people are gone, if they ever existed.

One of the things I have done is have parties with those closest to me to celebrate their special day and give them appreciation for all they contribute to me and to others. Soon it will be Rachel's birthday, she turns 21!! We are hoping to surprise her with some gifts, time with friends and of course a cake.

Florence is really great at decorating, with flowers, signs and banners. She loves making the place look special and creating something for the person to remember.

What is surprising to me is that people continue to remember celebrating birthdays, even after they are no longer in my immediate connection. Life is precious and definitely worth making a big deal over.

Hope your next birthday is a special one, where others let you know how much you are cared about and appreciated.